At any point in your life you can begin any day to build the life of your dreams. If you could count how many times you started something new in your life could you? Everyday is a new chance to start again, we’ve all heard this and with each sunrise there is hope for a good day. Realistically we cannot just erase yesterday but the goal is to make each day worth living. With decades of coaching clients and studying human transformation it is important that we allow ourselves to go through the real emotions of life brings. Not everyday is going to be sunny and on the cloudy days we use those to grow, learn and evolve. We according to the latest research we have 27 emotions that can all be used according to experience. If you allow yourself to process those emotions and feel to heal, you will be having a honest human experience.
No matter what happens in your life, as long as you can feel you can heal and live your life to the fullest. If I look back at my own life experience I personally lived to the fullest at each step only because I would not let anyone tell me who I was or what I should do. I felt I had to live happy to prove I was not to be told how to live. I also lived slightly in the future, meaning everything I did and still tend to do, is for an outcome. I missed a lot of living in the moments because I was always trying to reach the next one. They say people are the happiest living in the present moment.
At what point in your life should a person be happiest? It seems everyone has a very different timeline and feeling about what makes them happy. The human nature of a persons biological needs includes having a family, a community, love, good food, safe housing and the resources necessary to fulfill your purposes. Should we have these securely all the time, we would have world peace I believe as long as no one feels they need more than their neighbors. Purpose is really the most important part of a persons life. Without it people will feel unfulfilled in life. The thing is we can find purpose throughout our lives that is specific to that time and it can change. And that is what life growth and transformation is really all about. Growing with each experience, whether you feel things are meant to be or we create them, what’s certain is our experiences good or bad help guide us in each new chapter. You decide the next step you take in life based on your given circumstance. Take the past as experience, live in the moment and keep growing forward. The life you live is ultimately yours to live. Choose to live everyday in such a way that serves your greater good. Whether you take week off to heal and reset or you keep going everyday in your routine. The choice is yours, Its all up to you. The goal I have set in this journey of encouraging self love, is for every person to take care of themselves everyday. The more you take care of yourself the more you can provide your gifts and purpose. When you grow to self love you are better able to give love. This world needs love more than ever as far as we know in our lifetime. Loving yourself is a commitment. Self Love starts with you. .
